~defense mechanism~

ari ni sy nk talk about defense mechanism which is an unconscious psychological strategies brought into play to cope with reality and to maintain self image.in simple words nye..it helps the ego cope with anxiety.everybody has their own types or ways of defense mechanism.

for example:

ade sorg bdk nih kena mrh ngn a total stranger for a reason yg bdk ni pon tgh blurr lg was she deserve to be high-pitched-scolded and banged in front of people mcm tu.so slps meminta maaf(as she realized nothing better she cud do at that particular moment),she mcm ade mask-like facies n walk away.rs cam nk diam all d way n pretend like nothing happen instead of everybody else waiting for her emotion to burst out.
wen she blk rumah,she pray n recite some sentence from Quran,she tido n hoping that it was just a nightmare.dlm hati she said,"jgnla i grow up to be a like-her-doctor"

p/s:really wish u are here..

3 comments:

DiNi aZiZ May 13, 2010 at 9:35 AM  

dear fren,
itulah kehidupan kita.kuatkan semangat.
apapun, hanya pada Allah tempat yang terbaik utk mengadu.semua itu adalah cara utk jadikan kita lebih baik dan kuat utk ms hadapan. be strong, n jadilah seorang doktor yang baik amin.
tc ^_^

yanie May 13, 2010 at 8:09 PM  

erm..thanx din.sayu plak rs.yes its tough.but dats life i guess.

miss teja May 14, 2010 at 9:02 PM  

siapa marah kamu mek?

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